lifelessons, relationships

Write Your Own Story

Every new day in our life is like a plane page of a book.It can be filled with marvelous memories or it can be crushed and thrown into the trash can just because it has been destroyed.

We live in such a society in which our thoughts are driven by the person sitting next to us.What we think or what we do is by their approval and terms and conditions. Ah!!That’s so imperious..Each and every day we are surrounded by so many living creatures that we tend to lose our true selves.We get lost in the glamour of this world and seek the company of so many fellows that we try to adapt their habits and mould our own personality according to them.This is because we fear being alone or getting ashamed at the thought of being dumped by someone.At first thought it might look some sort of crap but if you start to think about it then you may find it relatable. This is the story of every person in this world.More or less we do want to do what others are doing even if it does not follow our ethics.

Do we really want to work according to others?Don’t we want a life that is purely ours?Don’t we want every moment to be cherished or shattered by our own actions and not others?

I’m sure we all want that life which takes only our commands and not others.We want that moments which are truly created by us and not others.We all want our life story to be written by our best pen on the best page.We want to fill each page with the colours even if they are black or white but they are only ours.

Each one of us have our own personality and they are unique.We cannot afford to copy the thoughts of other person and paste in our frame even if it does not fit into it.This will destroy the frame.So its better to find yourself.Just go and explore yourself.What gives you happiness or what makes you sad.What are your likes or dislikes.How you want things to be done.Give your own point of view.Its really important to hold your virtue among a group.Many are there to contradict you and you might question yourself.Don’t let this happen.Never lose your ethics and your virtue.Your actions should not be influenced by any other person.No one in this world is perfect.So you are.Accepting mistakes is more important than apologising.The whole life should be lived by you only.

Write each page of this book very carefully afterall:

“My life is only mine and I will write each and every page of this book.”

Go and live for yourself……Have a colourful life ahead….

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My shape of relationship

Every day we experience the taste of a lot of relationships.Some are given or we can say forced on us by our birth and others we make by ourselves and generally love them the most….These relationships gives us the true essence of life.Some teach us what is love and others what is pain.Some people are made for us and others are not.All the difference lies in our perspective of a relationship.What we want and why we want is the greatest question that lies here.

Relationships stands on the pillars of trust,love,respect and selflessness.If these things are present then this will be the strongest bond ever created in the world.It seems really easy to be a person like this but its really hard to be.These four elements are rarely found in a relationship.This might be because no one in the world is perfect and so a perfect relationship seems like a myth.But that does not means that love is a myth.

My shape of a relationship says that believe in permanent ones and not temporary. Temporary conjugations gives temporary happiness.Permanent associations give permanent happiness.Be it the conjugation between friends or some special friends all share a bond of love.This bond is temporary and if there is no trust,respect or love then this bond may break.Share each moment of happiness and sorrow with each other.If one cries other should be there to hold the hand and say ‘i m with you’.Each moment of life should feel as if it is the best thing ever happened.Every day should be a valentine day;every year a leap year.When you see your dreams coming true or your life becomes a fairy tale then you are on the verge of permanent relationship.When you start to care more for another person than yourself then you are with the correct person.When the hell becomes heaven for you then you are at the correct place with your conjugate.You should be able to taste every essence of life and want to live with your better half.Both should complete each other.Live like a king or queen that you have dreamt of and believe me if you get this feeling then you are the luckiest person in the world.

 

My shape of relationship is a bit fairy tale like that never seems to be true.But if you at least dream of something like that and try to achieve even a bit of it then it will change your life completely.Have a great life ahead….

 

 

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Smile a day!!!

Give a smile to the new day and day will shower happiness on you.

What could be the best way to start a new day??

Answer may be: make a to do list , promise not to hurt anyone  , try best efforts to complete tasks and many more….As the day sets all these goals are in vain.At the end of the day you feel stressed, tired or fatigue. Now rewind your whole day to think how you started your day and how it has ended!! No one ever thinks of the new day as an opportunity to do what you haven’t done till date. This is the sole reason for the mind numbing life that we experience everyday.

What if we start our day with a pleasant smile which sways away all our tension and stress??

Flower of a smile keeps growing ever day if nourished with a smile.This flower then gives you fruits that you enjoy lifelong.

What you just need to do is pass a smile to everyone you meet and this will introduce a new world to do.Wake up each morning with a happy mood and think about the exciting things that you can do this day.The 24 hours can be lived fully if you have a cheerful  start in the morning.Don’t hurt your loved ones…you will be full of guilt for the whole day and spoil your as well as other person’s mood.New day comes with new opportunities and aspirations.So better utilize your day in achieving this…Have a wonderful day and wonderful life….

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