In hawaon me behna chati hu,
In badalon me tairna chati hu,
In nadiyon me kudna chati hu,
In panchiyon ki tarah chehchana chati hu,
In bhanwaro ki tarah mandrana chati hu,
In jangalon me khona chati hu,
Is zindagi ke samudra mein puri tarah dubna chati hu.
LOVE……one of the most beautiful and probably one of the most complicated feeling ever.You see a beautiful sunset-you love it. You eat your favorite ice-cream and you love it. As we see around ourselves we find comfort in things we love. And we find love in the things that soothes our eyes. Be it a thing, a person or you pet, you love them as you see them or get to know them better. It makes our life alluring and worth living. It is because of love we live peacefully and happily.
But the real dilemma is that this love is not everlasting. You love a sunset but it is momentary. The sun sets and its gone. You may enjoy your favorite ice-cream but after you eat it all…its gone. Of course, humans are mortals they come and go forever. The only love that lasts forever and grow with time is with the person behind the mirror…yes its you.
The only person you can love unconditionally and will never leave you is YOU. Everything come and goes but you are always there for yourself and no one can ever love you more. It happens with us that we tend to find love in another person but the person to love is always with you. Everyone in the world will ditch you but you cannot ditch yourself. This love is with your trueself and it does not depend on person,place or time.
Pamper yourself, spend some time with yourself and then you will find everlasting happiness and peace.
Every day we experience the taste of a lot of relationships.Some are given or we can say forced on us by our birth and others we make by ourselves and generally love them the most….These relationships gives us the true essence of life.Some teach us what is love and others what is pain.Some people are made for us and others are not.All the difference lies in our perspective of a relationship.What we want and why we want is the greatest question that lies here.
Relationships stands on the pillars of trust,love,respect and selflessness.If these things are present then this will be the strongest bond ever created in the world.It seems really easy to be a person like this but its really hard to be.These four elements are rarely found in a relationship.This might be because no one in the world is perfect and so a perfect relationship seems like a myth.But that does not means that love is a myth.
My shape of a relationship says that believe in permanent ones and not temporary. Temporary conjugations gives temporary happiness.Permanent associations give permanent happiness.Be it the conjugation between friends or some special friends all share a bond of love.This bond is temporary and if there is no trust,respect or love then this bond may break.Share each moment of happiness and sorrow with each other.If one cries other should be there to hold the hand and say ‘i m with you’.Each moment of life should feel as if it is the best thing ever happened.Every day should be a valentine day;every year a leap year.When you see your dreams coming true or your life becomes a fairy tale then you are on the verge of permanent relationship.When you start to care more for another person than yourself then you are with the correct person.When the hell becomes heaven for you then you are at the correct place with your conjugate.You should be able to taste every essence of life and want to live with your better half.Both should complete each other.Live like a king or queen that you have dreamt of and believe me if you get this feeling then you are the luckiest person in the world.
My shape of relationship is a bit fairy tale like that never seems to be true.But if you at least dream of something like that and try to achieve even a bit of it then it will change your life completely.Have a great life ahead….
Give a smile to the new day and day will shower happiness on you.
What could be the best way to start a new day??
Answer may be: make a to do list , promise not to hurt anyone , try best efforts to complete tasks and many more….As the day sets all these goals are in vain.At the end of the day you feel stressed, tired or fatigue. Now rewind your whole day to think how you started your day and how it has ended!! No one ever thinks of the new day as an opportunity to do what you haven’t done till date. This is the sole reason for the mind numbing life that we experience everyday.
What if we start our day with a pleasant smile which sways away all our tension and stress??
Flower of a smile keeps growing ever day if nourished with a smile.This flower then gives you fruits that you enjoy lifelong.
What you just need to do is pass a smile to everyone you meet and this will introduce a new world to do.Wake up each morning with a happy mood and think about the exciting things that you can do this day.The 24 hours can be lived fully if you have a cheerful start in the morning.Don’t hurt your loved ones…you will be full of guilt for the whole day and spoil your as well as other person’s mood.New day comes with new opportunities and aspirations.So better utilize your day in achieving this…Have a wonderful day and wonderful life….